Monday, October 24, 2016

September 2016

September meant the start of Fall activities such as dance, MOPS, preschool for Kalum and Husker football games (not attending, but watching when possible) and some more dedicated scheduled time to remodeling work.  We are to priming stage on the walls, wood trim is being prepped so it can be spray painted, finishing up outside projects and the list goes on!  We made a Sunday afternoon quick trip to a small, local pumpkin patch and took Labor Day to go to the State Fair with the Pennell family.  We also celebrated Poppy's 93rd (Wow!) birthday this month at Pennell's with a family dinner and dessert.

I was thinking back to how different this September has been than the last one.  Last year at this time we were hurriedly wrapping up the Boyd Street house before baby #3 would join our family.  We were bringing two kids out to the house with us to watch a movie on the laptop while we painted and did other final finish work.  I was still working for NARI and trying to get everything possible done ahead of time.  So...this year we are still working to complete a project in the fall, but at least I'm not climbing up and down a step stool with a big baby belly or crouching down to switch plate covers while hoping I won't break my water on the newly installed laminate floors!  I've got three healthy, beautiful kids who I get to spend more quality time with, whether that is coloring a picture, going to the park, playing dinosaurs or legos or reading some books.  Samara and Kalum are thriving at their respective schools so far and Wesson is learning new things every day.  Jeff continues to keep up an amazing work ethic and does so well at his job and side business, while being a great daddy to the kids when he is home.  We know that the coming weeks will get more full of remodeling work in order to wrap up the Memphis project this fall, so we just try to make the family time moments count whenever we can!

Samara's Moments for the Month:

  • Apparently girls start thinking about their lives way earlier than necessary... At dinner Samara asked me to name off some names because she didn't know what she would want to name her kids when has them.  Before I could even say that was a little preemptive, she blurted out, "Ashland!  Can someone be named Ashland?!"  Jeff and I confirmed that they could be.  "Mom, write that down so when I have kids I can remember it!"  Ok, will do girlie. ;)
  • She likes kindergarten and says it's so much better than preschool (because you get three recesses).  She is making new friends, boys and girls, and still loves giving things to others.  She shares her reward treats for good behavior at school with the friends she sits by on the bus.
  • September meant the start up of dance for Samara.  She opted to stick with dance this year, so we'll see if she decides to pursue other interests or if she decides to continue on.  She actually does really well, remembering dance moves, has good positioning and coordination.
  • Ended up in tears after just a couple laps of school fundraiser event. I think that running was harder than she thought, her ego got hurt when people passed by her and it was Friday after a long full week of school. All together a recipe for sobbing disaster... Got her to walk a lap with her teacher then Kalum and I walked a lap with her whole another mom watched Wesson in stroller. She was so disappointed she didn't get enough laps so her class could win. After crying and ranting over everything after school into evening, she had some alone time in her tom then dinner. Early to bed tonight I think. 
  • By the end of the month, she was on to another name topic.  She wants her name to be "Diamond" now.  She says it's not because of a book they read at school about a girl who wanted to change her name...hmm.  I said we chose her name and I would probably stick with Samara.  Eventually this led to her saying she could just name her kids (in this order) Diamond, Treasure and Chase (the 3rd being a boy).  Oh that will be interesting!

Kalum's Moments for the Month:

  • First day of preschool!  Slightly hesitant walking in the door, but found his cubby, mailed his name and went off to circle time toting his dinosaur show and tell! Had a great time and rattled off all the activities he did when we got in the van on way home. "They have lots of fun things for kids to do there!"  He said. He forgot to tell them dinosaurs aren't alive anymore, but he will tell them next class he said. 
  • Our conversation one day...
    • Me: "It's nice outside today!  I'm going to open some windows to let some air in."
    • Kalum: "but Samara's not outside."
    • Me: "(laughing) "Oh I see.  "samara in".  I'm going to let some cool AIR in the house"
    • Kalum: "oh ok."
  • He tells me he had "a really fun day at preschool" each time he gets in the car.  Then he recounts all the activities, coloring or painting, legos and blocks, listening to a story, singing songs, etc.  He knows the words to "God is bigger than the boogie man" theme song for the year.
  • First MOPS meeting of the year means MOPPETS class for Kalum (last year this did not go well most weeks).  He did well this time!  Only slight hesitation when we arrived at his room, but then he had a great time - watched a short movie, playground, snack, puzzles and a rainbow craft.  He loves to do projects/crafts and was so proud to show it to me at pickup!
  • We got to go to the Moms Night at his preschool.  I never got to go to Samara's because I had work meetings for two of them and then Wesson was born the day of her last one.  A simple night with a craft, snack and watching a veggie tales, but he was so cute, asking me to sit with him on the floor for the video. Quality time.
  • Following the MOPS meeting, he seems to be over the crying at Sunday school drop-off as well (thankfully)!  This has been a long behavior issue over the last couple years, so we are very glad that he's matured beyond it, whether it took preschool to do so or whatever!

Wesson's Milestones for the Month:

  • Started off his 11th month with a tumble down our short set of stairs.  He was in the living room and followed me towards the green room downstairs.  I said two words to the kids and then turned to see him roll down.  Poor baby (insert guilty mom face here)!  Thought he might get a bruise by his eye, but ended up okay.  He wanted to cuddle briefly then back to life as usual.  I don't think he learned from it because he was back to standing on the top step later that evening!
  • Planned a Derby cousin photo shoot when everyone would be in town.  Wesson had a rough day there!  Amazingly we did get one photo of all 7 kids looking pleasantly at the camera.  Then he cried and screamed and crawled away - no matter what we did!  
  • Early in the month - 6th tooth coming in, 7th started right after that one was in.
  • Sept 10th - officially packed up all the bottles!  I haven't used them in a month or so, so it was time.  I'm still able to nurse him in the morning, late afternoon and bedtime (and he's usually up once at night).  Going to try and give a full cup of milk at bedtime to see if he'll sleep all the way through the night.  It's time.
  • Milestones mid-month -can "bump bump" down the stairs on his rump all by himself (still need to stay close though, sometimes he leans just a little too far forward!), babbles all the time with different sounds - what will be his first official words besides mama and dada that he does now?  He can walk along anything and will go on own between things that are close.  Can take about 6 steps independently and is SO proud of himself when he does.  Claps his hands whenever you say, "Yay".  Won't eat bread anymore for some reason.  But will eat all meat-chicken, lunchmeat, tuna, etc.  His hair is getting crazy long and needs another trim badly!  No bald babies in our house. :)
  • If Kalum does something Wesson doesn't like (i.e. taking a toy, block his path, etc), Wesson will grab onto him and bonk his head on Kalum.  Or he'll scream right back if Kalum is making a loud noise about Wesson getting too close to his latest duplo creation.
  • First MOPS of the year for Wesson as well - only got upset at drop-off.  he cuddled with a mom for almost an hour of mops, so no nap, but got in some cuddles, sweet boy.
  • Figured out covering his own eyes to play peekaboo.  Also when he wants to play he'll push your face away and lean away with a huge smile like he's hiding.
  • End of the month milestones - Can walk across the room now.  Typically still crawls because it's faster, but getting more and more daring.  Smiled hugely after some successful walking.  Says "ba" for ball (as in ba ba ba when he bounces the ball on his lips repeatedly, but always ba for ball).  Points at anything he finds interesting now, you an ask milk, eat or sleep and he'll sign what he wants.  First animal sound is a opening and closing his mouth for a fish.
October is next up - how can that be, fall is very officially here!

Link to view September photos (click or copy/paste this link into search, then click on first image in the album and you can view with photo labels):
https://goo.gl/photos/xFTwZpvbqHkcoUje7

Tuesday, October 4, 2016

August 2016

August was a great month!  Some fun family events, last days of summer, the start of Gretna's school year and for DRG - The exterior of the house at Memphis is seeing progress along with drywall getting done inside and the garage at Eagle house got new siding.  I think the moments and milestones below and the photos really cover the events of the month - it went so quickly and we had to pack in all the of the things I promised Samara we would do before school started.

Samara's Moments for the Month:

  • Gifts - We may have discovered her love language - gifts.  She is always wanting to give gifts, money or artwork to people because they are doing a great job, they are her friend or any other reason.  It truly makes her heart happy to give.
  • Morrill Hall - she was okay with all the bones and taxidermy.  The dinosaurs that they had made to look lifelike got to her though.  The eyes of the pterodactyl, ostrich like dinosaur and the T. Rex type carnivore were too much!  I had to hold her and carry her out of the room.
  • Mid August Jeff found a toad and a small gardener snake for her to keep as pets.  She loves having them, holds them at every chance she gets and helps Daddy catch crickets to feed them. Mommy is hands off on these pets.
  • She saw an ad for some Skechers brand shoes on TV that she wanted to have for the new school year.  We got some shoes at Target that were apparently close enough, she was so happy with them and said it felt like you are walking on little trampolines (which is what the ad showed I guess).  She was so excited about them and calls them her Skechers.
  • I drove her to school her first day and got to walk her into her classroom.  For the trip home, she got to ride the bus and when she jumped off the bus, she said her day was "Awesome awesome awesome!"  She seemed to love every part of it, start to finish.  She had friends already (though she didn't remember their names yet).  And she also relayed to all of us the classroom rules.  She said there was one part she didn't like about kindergarten: "There was one part of kindergarten I don't like.  Whoever is listening gets to be a helper."  The teacher chooses from that are being most quiet it sounds like.  Day Two she got all the way to purple on the behavior scale, so she got a sucker.  She was so very proud of herself!  I'm so proud of her for taking this new experience in stride, making friends and being excited about learning new things.
  • She went to a Build-A-Bear party for a friend.  All the other girls chose to make hot pink bears with little dresses.  She chose a soft, tan bunny and didn't want an outfit because "bunnies don't wear clothes".  On the little birth certificate, she named the bunny, "Mud".  Of so individual my Samara, love it!  She later that day renamed the bunny "Honey Bunny" (with the last name Mud), after a bunny we caught and released last summer.

Kalum's Moments for the Month:

  • Beginning of August he seemed to really take to coloring, and doing it well, within the lines!  He requests constant affirmation of how good he's doing. "Mom, isn't the dinosaur tail looking great?"  This new passion also involves coloring on other things, the table, wall and himself - we'll have to focus his efforts more I think.
  • One morning he opened the bathroom door while I was taking a shower in the morning, but then went away.  I assumed he went back to his bedroom to wait for his alarm clock to turn green (wake up time).  I come out of the shower brushing my teeth to get dressed and he jumps up from under my bed covers and says, "Boo!"  I jumped for sure!  he got his reaction and was so proud that he was quiet while he waited (that is usually his downfall during hide and seek games).
  • Even though he declares himself a big kid, he still climbs up in my lap when he sees it open.  Also, every once in a while he says, "I just love you Mom."  And then continues playing or reading a book, etc. 
  • He was so excited to see the dinosaur bones at Morrill Hall!  He liked them all, except the leg bone of the T. Rex by the full size stegosaurus was a little much.  He wouldn't get too close for a picture.  I totally get it, Mommy had to "put her brave on" as I'm not a fan of big skeletons or lifelike creatures either as a grown up (forget about it as a kid!!)
  • Once Kindergarten started, Kalum asked quite a few times where Samara was or when we were going to get her.  He was so disappointed on the second day of school when we walked to the bus stop and then she just got on the bus and he rode his bike home with me and Wesson in the stroller.  The first Monday of school, Mom spent two hours playing Legos (duplos) with Kalum.  We made At-At Walkers galore, but this cannot go on for days on end, we must find another activity!
  • Late August he got to meet preschool teacher, Mrs. DeVries, at his home visit.  He warned up pretty quickly (and we tried to have Samara not overtake the conversation).  He was so excited that she left him his own school bag and bible with his name on it and...homework!  He wanted to start right then, but we were able to persuade him that waiting until the next morning would be better.  Hope he maintains this enthusiasm for school work! :)
  • Talking with Kalum about what he'll do when he's a grown up... Apparently his future includes finding a wife wherever she wants to meet him, being a daddy, working on houses to make enough money for his 14 kids, he'll live in Omaha (kind of by JJ's house), we can have him over for lunch sometimes, going to big church and when his monster truck gets rusty he'll take it to Midas.
  • By the end of the month, he's writing his name on all artwork.  He gets all the letters in the right order, just some of the letters are upside down.

Wesson's Milestones for the Month:

  • At the beginning of the month he had a Wednesday where his voice was kind of raspy and he was a little more whiny than usual, even took two naps.  Thursday he slept in until 9AM then was even more clingy.  Fell asleep on Mommy for two naps, was able to put him into his crib for the second.  Woke up after later nap and had fever and shakes.  He threw up four times in a row (of course, after cleaning him up each time) and sipped some water.  His fever only got up to 99-100 each day, except right before he threw up.  He started pulling on his ear and whining if we touched it on Sunday.  Off to Dr on Monday and definitely a left ear infection.  Such different symptoms than the other two kids when they had ear infections!
  • Will sort through a stack of board books to find his current favorites - Baby faces peekaboo book and plan book with textured pages.
  • Aug 21st - showed him how to go down the stairs bump, bump on his rump and he actually gave it a try this time.  Would smile proudly after each bump!
  • No longer a fan of peanut butter toast.  Loves grapes!  Even started saying "gway".  We know it doesn't necessarily mean grape, just a new sound. ;)  Likes sweet potatoes with peas and spinach and spaghetti sauce with noodles.  Pancakes, eggs and hash browns along with other finger foods.
  • August 23rd - Wesson walks!  He can stand for a bit then take a few steps.  Then goes down to crawling again.  Also likes to walk with dinosaur walker toy and crawl around pushing toy cars around.
  • Aug 25th - got a cold that he recovered from quickly, just a couple rough nights of waking up.
  • Tooth #5 is in! Aug 26th, a couple more rough nights and crabbier days.
  • By the end of the month, he gives Mommy a hug upon request!  Melt my heart little guy.  Now just trying to get him to hug other people, say Daddy maybe?!


Here's the link to view the photos from August!:
https://goo.gl/photos/YGtxzLuP8ES6JAwo6

September will bring the start of fall, preschool, MOPS and more DRG progress!