Sunday, April 27, 2014

March 2014

Well, as promised, March WAS madness!  Between Samara's symptoms, full schedules, traveling for work, temper tantrums and truck troubles - sheesh!  The truck was making a few noises, but they got really bad mid-month and we had to take it in.  $1000 later the wheel bearings are new and it's good to go again.  Since I am driving the truck all week, we are considering trading in the truck for a more family friendly vehicle.  We'll see, it's just in the planning stages.  Work schedules were full, Jeff working a few extra hours here and there and a couple Saturdays and I had regular meetings then went to New Orleans for work from March 26-29th.  My parents and Jeff again handled the kids and preschool schedule, etc. while I was gone.  I gained information to bring back to our chapter and enjoyed time with other chapter execs, but am glad that I don't travel for work too often.  Also, that was enough of the Big Easy for me, no need to head back for sure!

We did have some time for fun things though... went to Leah's first birthday party, a friend's couples baby shower, "Hawaii Day"at Samara's preschool and my Mom's opening night of her art show downtown!  (I was traveling for work and was so bummed that I had to miss that evening showcasing her work to family, friends and the public and will make time to go get a personal tour before the show ends in early May.)  Also, we had the Pennell family over to watch Frozen one evening and have homemade pizzas.  Courtney and Nick brought pizza supplies and everyone enjoyed.  Samara commented and asked questions about almost the entire movie.  Kalum sat on Mommy's lap and watched the entire movie silently! Who knew?

Samara's March Milestones and Moments:
  • Some of the change to go into Samara's piggy bank was on the kitchen table.  She told me, "Mom, that money is for college.  I'm going to leave it on the table until college" Oh, wow - no cleaning off the kitchen table in our house for 15 years I guess!
  • Mid March was her first "sick week".  She missed two days of preschool due to 105 fever and sore throat the whole week, also saying her tummy hurt.  We went to the Dr. thinking strep for sure, but that was negative.  The high fever started on Monday and by Friday it was down to 99 and she seemed a little better.  She still wears out quickly and is a little more passive than her usual self.  Poor kid!  By Saturday was basically better though and able to go to a birthday party that weekend, the first school friend party she has gone to.
  • March 21st - resurfacing of temper tantrums-ugh!  She gets violent, kicking and hitting if you try to put her in her room.  After great family dinner out, she melted down getting ready for bed.  We tried to ignore her for over an hour that night.  She wandered around following Mommy and trying to get attention while screaming and crying. (Naked the whole time, since tantrum started in the bath).  She finally stopped being totally crazy and we got her to bed.  NO idea how Kalum didn't wake up screaming as well!
  • Cake frustration!  We drove to Grand Island for their cousin Leah's first birthday party.  Samara did well at the party, helping open gifts, even the tutu outfit we made Leah.  THEN... She wanted a piece of cake with two colors of frosting, not the one she was given.  This turned into a crying, screaming fit!  After several warnings, Daddy took her out to the car to calm down.  She practically broke the window banging on it and Daddy lost hearing in one ear, but eventually she calmed down enough to return.  She quietly apologized and ate her undesirable cake and melted ice cream.  She was told next time we will leave the party and not come back if her attitude gets like that.  We'll hope she can behave better next time after our discussion.

Kalum's March Milestones and Moments:
  • Early March - first word with consonant ending, SIT!, first shower rather than bath - loved it! He wanted Mommy to hold him so that water could hit right on his back, laid head on my shoulder. He's saying more words and understands several step instructions now.
  • March 17th - first combination of words! "Bye bye car" 
  • Later March - if out in public, he will now wave and bye-bye to people without prompting.  We discovered he is a casserole kid!  If it's in casserole form, he seems to devour anything - meat, veggies, etc.  Too bad casseroles aren't too good for the adults' waistlines!
  • Sneaky younger brother: While Samara was being carried out of Leah's birthday party screaming and throwing a fit, Kalum sneaked up into my now empty chair and silently started helping himself to cake with my spoon.  Smart kid he is, take advantage of the diversion!
We'll see where next month takes us, maybe a little more of a slower pace possibly? Ha! That would be too boring, right... ;)


February 2014

Okay - February was BUSY!!  I'm looking back at our calendar and I'm not sure how it all fit it really.  My guess would be some late nights, early mornings and full days.  Either way, here are our highlights...  We still teach Sunday school twice per month and our small group usually meets twice per month as well in the evening.  MOPS had two morning meetings this month, only one with a craft and an evening event once.  For work I had two home shows to make sure NARI was represented at-meaning cover any shifts that were open and coordinate setup/take down, etc. as well as run an Education Day event, committee meeting, an evening meeting and a chapter hockey night!  Despite a crazy schedule for work, I told myself I was going to take the time to attend the Women's Retreat through our church, held at Arbor Lodge in NE City.  I left Saturday morning and came back Sunday afternoon and was SO glad that I went!  I learned a lot and just had time away.  I will definitely attend again next year!  Jeff has been busy at work as well and he was a great husband and watched the kiddos while I was gone, though I think the bulk of the time Saturday was spent at his parents. Whatever works is fine by me!

Samara's February Moments:
  • With the Olympics on, we caught what we could of the prime-time airings.  Following what she did see of the games, she now wants to play hockey, runs around the house saying she's faster than the bobsleds and thinks she'll be able to jump and spin on ice skates.  I guess we'll have to take our "Olympic caliber athlete" ice skating sometime. :)
  • Another baby: Over lunch Samara tells me she wants to have another baby.
    • A- you want to?
    • S- no, you have it.
    • A-well we have a baby, Kalum is still little.  Why do you think we should have another baby?
    • S- So I can share my toys and hold the baby.
    • A- You have trouble sharing your toys with only one brother and you shouldn't hold little babies yet really.
    • S- Well I would share and I wouldn't hold the baby tight, just like this (gently rocking arms back and forth)
    • She got the smile and nod on that one, for sure.  (Then, not said, just thought... Oh Samara. Mommy is not ready now (and may not ever be) for another two year commitment from her body! And another year of no sleep on top of it...with two older kids.)

Kalum's February Moments:
  • Feb 5th - 15 month check-up: Weight- 25lb 4 oz (66%), Height- 32" (73%), Head Circ.- 46.5cm (28%)  He was a tough guy, getting two shots and he only cried because we held him on the table.  He stopped as soon as he wasn't being held down!
  • Early February - says apple, "apo!"  He'll eat it with no skin, if sliced thinly.  He can be a chipmunk though, so one must monitor closely how much he has packed in that mouth of his! Says "up", "uh-oh", "No!" So excited about kitties, was running around making "k" sounds.  Played with horse toy during car ride.  It was so cute to hear him making sounds and walking the horse along his car seat.
  • Mid February - Bites!  You see it most when he's playing with Samara.  He bit her arm through her sweatshirt when she refused to share a toy.  We'll hope it's a brief phase.  He is starting to repeat some words now. Says "go!"  He knows a handful of animal sounds and can follow instructions well now (i.e. go put the toy away in the box).  He is so excited to see Papa - He didn't even want him to leave!
Let the March madness begin...


January 2014

Happy New Year 2014!  How can it be 2014 already?!  We celebrated the our birthdays with Derby's on Saturday Jan. 4th then all the winter birthdays with Pennell's on January 5th.  More family time, gifts and good food - spring may require more than just some cleaning!!  Then January was off to a quick pace from the get-go.  I had plenty of work meetings this month to prepare for and attend, as well as MOPS picking back up from Christmas break.  I also helped plan a baby shower for Jeff's sister, Michelle, where we got to find out that Samara and Kalum will have another baby GIRL cousin this spring!  Courtney and I took an evening to attend a women's worship night at our church and enjoyed the fashion show, music and speaker very much - a night with ladies is a good break sometimes!  Jeff is busy at work, but still working about 40 hours per week, which is nice for sure to have family time on the weekends and evenings.  We took advantage of some NIFCO hockey tickets and went on a double date with Jeff's brother, Brian, and fiance', Bree, in Lincoln to Italian dinner and a Lincoln stars hockey game - a good time was had by all!  I believe that's the highlights for January - here we go on our 32nd year!

Samara's Moments for the Month:
  • Samara can write her name! I was so impressed the first time I saw her do it.  She "reads" any words and letter she sees.  It's not all that accurate of reading, but at least she's trying and she does get "Samara" every time!
  • She has started asking tough questions that spark from Sunday school and preschool stories and topics.  What is your soul?  Lots of questions about heaven, etc.  She understands why Jesus dies on the cross for our sins.  She also gets that people who love and have Jesus  in their heart can go to heaven.
  • She is a compliment giver, maybe she understands even more of the world than we realize! :)  You can often hear, Gemma, I love your shirt, Mom I love your scarf, lady we walk by at church-I just love your dress!! Hope that this attitude carries on, everyone loves a good compliment.
  • Samara got to have a pajama day at preschool where she wore new pj's from Christmas and got to bring Lambie!!
  • Jan 25th - I'm working downstairs and hear Jeff and Samara talking upstairs:
    • S: Let's play wedding
    • J: enough wedding, let's fight
    • S: No, walk with me for the wedding
    • J: (playing wedding music on cell phone, after a debate about whether or not they play music at weddings).  
    • I come upstairs to photograph and video the event...
    • They link arms and walk through living room.  Samara holding flower girl flowers and wearing play dress-up heels.  Jeff with a plastic strainer on his head (maybe a stand-in top hat?)
    • Oh.my.gosh! Some day this will be real!!
Kalum's Moments for the Month:
  • January 2nd - after months of walking, Kalum crawls for the first time!  He went under the kids table in kitchen after a toy.
  • Early January - started saying choo-choo for train.  He loves his new Thomas the train bath toys from Christmas and wants to carry them around all day, his choo-choo, sounds like "doo-doo".  He says "shoes" really clearly and knows they go on feet.  He will grab his feet and say it.  Also tried to do head, shoulders, knees and toes.  It's a little fast for him, so he just ends up squatting up and down and turning around flailing his arms.  Then ends with touching his nose.  
  • Mid January - Can now climb onto kitchen chairs, not too thrilled about that one.   Makes a chomping sound and hold play food or even real crackers to his stuffed animals' mouths.  So cute!  I remember when Samara started doing that.  Two more top teeth came in, so has ten teeth now.
  • Can follow directions - If you say, go put that in the trash, he will go over and open the trash cupboard and put it in, then close it.  But he often then goes back over and re-opens and takes item back out if it something too exciting and he can reach it.  Yuck!
  • Jan. 22nd- first bloody lip! Started to fall off kitchen chair, which he insisted on standing upon.  Mommy grabbed him or probably would have a knot on his head as well.  Got him to kiss the ice in paper towel repeatedly to the his lip to stop bleeding.
  • Took a trip to the zoo with Samara, Papa and Gemma.  It was cold, but they enjoyed the inside places - jungle, desert dome and butterfly pavilion.
  • He feels cookies should be a staple of his diet!  Animal cookies, or "kiki" as it sounds as he says it, always with a smile.
This is more of a Mommy moment for the month... After a couple rough days getting out of the house, I have once again realized that my getting crabby or impatient does NOT help the situation at all.  I will have to just put my tiredness or frustration aside and be patient and keep a nice tone with her.  Response has been really good and she tends to be very helpful.  It can just be. so. hard. when I REALLY need to get some things done and she seems to go in slow motion!  Some people have family members that keep them on their knees in prayer, some husbands, I think my attitude with my kids will keep me there, asking God to help me love on them as He loves on me!


December 2013

December is here again, with not much snow this year, but still some cold weather.  We had holiday events for every activity, group we're involved with, and family of course, so the month filled quickly!

I had my MOPS Steering Team get together the first Friday in the month, unfortunately, the same night as Jeff's NIFCO Holiday Party in Lincoln.  After much deliberation, I ended up going to the MOPS group and Jeff to Lincoln and Jeff's parents watched the kids.  My NARI Holiday Party was Dec. 12th, which Jeff attended as well, and as usual it was fun, but had me running all over the place to accomplish everything we had to get done that night!  That was the last big work-related event for the year, not that there was nothing to do, just a little breathing room before January hits.  Samara had a preschool program one evening in December - we have it on DVD if anyone wants to watch it.  They sang their songs well, though she was kind of a wiggle-worm up there for a bit!  We celebrated Jeff's Dad's birthday and Samara loved helping putting the candles in the cake and also helping blow out the candles.

Christmastime brought a visit to Jeff's Grandma's living center for their Christmas party.  This included a visit from Santa and Mrs. Santa.  This was Samara's first time seeing Santa in person.  She was doubtful at first, saying, "That's not the real Santa, it's a person in a costume!"  I asked, "how do you know?" She quietly pondered, then changed her tune and pursued Santa to shake his hand and insist that he come see her brother and a new little 4 year old friend she'd made there.  Kalum just looked at him weird having never seen him before, but didn't cry or anything.  Samara had no problem sitting on his lap for pictures and expressing her wishes.  She said she wanted "a new Lambie like hers".  They gave each child a little treat bag after visiting Santa.  I couldn't understand why she was in such a hurry to get back to the table and open it up.  When I finally helped her rip it open, she said with complete dismay, "that's not a new lambie!".  I had to explain that these were just gift bags not the gifts Santa brings on Christmas, while trying so hard not to laugh.

Family Christmas celebrations included Christmas Eve church at 6:00PM service, then we went to Pennell's on Christmas morning.  We opened many gifts and enjoyed time with everyone.  Kalum didn't yet grasp the opening of his gifts, so Jeff and I traded off on that role.  Samara was all about it though!  It was fun to see Christmas morning through her eyes this year, when she finally "gets" it.  She opened her new Lambie from Santa, which she named Freddy (really? Freddy?  no idea where that came from).  After our Santa and family gifts, we went to Pennell's and opened plenty more gifts and had our traditional Pork Roast, Sauerkraut and dumplings meal.  We went to Derby's in the afternoon and packed out their house to open some more gifts and enjoy a great meal.  Sheesh - next year we need to simplify or something.  Some spring cleaning will be in order it seems!  We celebrated with extended Pennell family at Karre's on Saturday the 28th.  It was nice to see so much family in one week and we know we are truly blessed to have so much family love and support! 

Samara's December Moments:
  • One of the days it did snow, Mommy was driving the truck and took a corner too quickly.  We went over the curb a bit and clipped sign.  Samara said, "Mommy tell me next time before we hit another sign so I can be ready!"  I explained that there would be no more sign-hitting, I had done enough damage for one day - OOPS!
  • Instead of Just in case, she says, "in just be case"
  • Samara asked Daddy for some more to drink... Jeff: "oh take a drink from your cup.  It has air milk in it!", Samara doubtfully take a drink from empty cup, Jeff: "see isn't that good, so light and airy?!", Samara: "there's nothing in this cup", Jeff: "yes, it's air milk, it's good!", Samara: "Mom, can you just get me some REAL milk please?"  Nice try dad!
  • December 16th - first mutual sibling hug today!
  • Samara has her own words for many Christmas carols this year, she sings "Rise up shepherds and follow" as "rise up shepherds and Papa!" Also "in ecelseis deo" as "and the angels sa-ay oh!"
  • When getting ready for her preschool Christmas program, all dressed and she runs back into her room.  She comes out with a bracelet that matches her oufit.  She says, "I hope my Daddy likes my bracelet, otherwise I'm not going to wear it" Aw, melt my heart. Dressing up for her "first man" already.
  • December 21st - Samara wakes up in the middle of the night singing Christmas carols and falls back asleep.  She also loved looking at Christmas lights on an evening drive, she said she didn't want to go back home.
  • Samara wanted her story one night to be about heaven and a kfalute (that's what she said for kazoo)
  • Samara had her last day at Wednesday daycare this month.  It seemed like I was taking her just because and now that Kalum is older I actually get more done when they are both home.  She'll be off in school all day before I know it, so don't want to miss days just because.
  • Christmas Eve church service - They gave kids streamers on a stick to wave during certain songs in the service.  The older Sunday school kids (Grade school through middle school) had learned motions for the streamers in the weeks prior.  She asked if she could go in the aisle, and once had approval (I thought to stand by our chairs) she ran up front and joined older kids in the dance!  When that song was over, she said "and everyone clapped", I think she thought all for her.  She loved it and wanted to go back up for any subsequent songs during service, though no more had streamers choreographed.
Kalum's December Moments:
  • early December - perfected the hug and says "dat" and pats head for hat, and will actually keep one on now.  Also tries to say cracker, using his D sound though.  If you say "go get..." he goes running off after said item.  If there is a pillow, he will tackle it upon command.
  • He got sick mid-month with a cold that turned to high 104 deg. fevers.   After a few days it was only at 99, but he was so pitiful and wanted to be held. :(
  • Mid December - learning animal sounds, me-me for kitty, ooooo for cow, eh eh eh (sounds like laughing) for horse. 
  • December 21st - we went on a car ride to go see Christmas lights, and he's solidly over a year, so we thought that was a good time to turn his car seat around.  First time riding forward in the car-He kept pointing and making noises, he was wide awake the whole time!
  • End of December - he happily runs around the kitchen and living room while playing or chasing after Samara.  Tries to jump by going up on tip toes and back down.  says "Da!" for car, sounds like "dardar" for cracker, signs for please but not usually for more or the sign for item he wants.  Throws a fit if doesn't get desired item!  He tries to stand on everything and will use any item as a step to reach higher and then stand on higher surface.  He can point to ears, nose, mouth and hair as you name them.  Also, toes, shoes, socks.  Tries to say nose and says "sa!" for socks.  He loves to hold them and carry around and suck on them, really any socks, his or not.

Jeff took off work on New Year's Eve and we got together again at Karre's during the day to see Grandpa and Grandma Pennell while they were still in town.  We had a low-key New Years Eve at home, kiddos in bed basically normal time.  We were like, wow, we are so exciting, as we watched some TV and heard the neighbors across the street shooting off fireworks until well past midnight, hoping they wouldn't wake our kids up.  On that note, here's to a great 2014 to you - Happy New Year!

November 2013

Wow - this post is waaaaaaay late!  Life gets busy and the blog posts get behind I guess.  Well, at least we have cameras to capture moments and an iphone app to keep track of the daily funny moments or cute sayings.  So, off we go - November 2013...

We celebrated Kalum's First Birthday the weekend after his actual birthday with a Husker Football Party, in light of his first and favorite word, BALL!  Fun was had by all our family there, he got plenty of gifts-some "boy toys" and enjoyed the cake for sure.  The Huskers last second win put everyone in good spirits as well!  The rest of the month was full, too, with fall things like preschool events for Samara such as her Hy-Vee field trip to buy food for charity and their Thanksgiving lunch program where they sang songs, had snacks and wore the Turkey hats they all made.  I had several MOPS events through the month, including our first actual meeting where we had a craft for the group.  All went well, so it's nice to have one done and under my belt.  Jeff and I went on a date to eat dinner and then to see TobyMac at the Mid-America Center the week before Thanksgiving. It was a fun concert with lots of contemporary Christian artists we enjoyed.

Thanksgiving was split over two days - Thursday at Derby's and then the Friday after at Pennell's.  We of course enjoyed lots of good food and great family time!

Samara's Moments for the Month:
  • When she woke up on November 1st and it was still dark, she said, "Oh, we can go trick or treating again!"
  • We notice everyday she's starting to look more and more grown up and is recognizing letters all over the place now that she sees.  Her go to movies are currently Sesame Street-Guess that Shape and Color and a Match Circus one about counting and numbers.  She's learning that letters make different sounds.  She'll say, what does pumpkin start with? I say the puh puh sound, she says "puh-puh-P" How about boy?  I say buh-buh sound. "buh-buh-B!" How about yummy? yuh-yuh I say.  "yuh-yuh-yee!"  Well, she'll get there I guess...
  • She still has quite the memory and can recount stories Daddy told her the night before.  
  • Determined! Daddy sets up an obstacle course in the living room that she has to go through.  It's called the "shark game" and she can't step on the carpet or the sharks will get her.  She went through one course 20 times until she got it right!
  • She'll sit you down, put a pretend cape on you, have a comb or brush and then ask how you want your hair.  "Princess style or adult style" are the two options, even for Daddy. :)
  • At HyVee one day every time I stopped the cart she would let go of her little green kid cart and sing through head, shoulders, knees and toes doing all the motions.  She also says "HI!" to every kid and often adult that goes by.
  • She didn't eat anything at Thanksgiving, but a little fruit salad at Derby Thanksgiving.  Just wanted to play iPad games or hide the lambie.  
  • She seems to have such a great base of knowledge of the bible already and she's only three.  When trying to tell me what the story was about at preschool one day:
    • Samara: "what was that guy's name again?"
    • Mommy: "What guy?"
    • S: "the one with the beautiful coat of so many colors?"
    • M: "Joseph you mean?"
    • S: "Yes, Joseph and he went to jail but he didn't do anything wrong.
Kalum's Moments for the Month:
  •  He is getting very particular about what food he wants to eat and will wave away anything undesirable.  He will say "eez" for please for whatever he does want though.  He can spit out any veggie that you give him at an amazing speed.  We have to hide it in other food really well!
  • Nov 12th - says "Yay!" and claps hands
  • Both kids are playing with the construction yellow bulldozers and dumptrucks...Kalum repeatedly rolling one off the coffee table and saying his version of boom!... Samara is putting little people in hers and saying, "there, now you are all snuggled in"
  • Late November Mommy was at a work meeting, so it was Daddy bath-duty night.  Kalum refused his bath and Jeff didn't have his diaper back on yet and went down to warm up the bed time bottle.   Jeff looked at top of stairs and saw naked Kalum peeing down the stairs! Boys!!
  • He is a climber!  He will try to climb onto anything he can.  Samara's rocking chair, desk chair, or stool and he figured out Samara's bed by late November.  Then he stands up top of each thing like he has conquered a mountain!
  • Nov 25th - only wants bananas and canned pears for fruits
  • Thanksgiving - Ate basically pumpkin bread, pumpkin pie and cool whip today.  Refused all food items at lunch and finally ate some pb toast before leaving.  He had no nap, so was one overtired little boy!
Believe it or not, next month will wrap up 2013!!