Saturday, May 4, 2013

2013 April

What, April is over too?!?!  Believe it or not, Spring is here... 

Though there have been only a few days where it actually felt like Spring, another month has passed on by!  This month was filled with a couple big events for Amanda - Remodeled Home Tour and a Conference in KC for 3 days/3nights for work, MOPS, and Bridal Shower planning and hostessing for Courtney.  Jeff had work-of course, Sunday school teaching, our church small group, taking his concealed carry weapon class(which Amanda went to as well - for "moral support" and knowledge of the topic), handling the kids while Amanda was out of town - yes, what a guy!!  He took two days off work and had the two kids all alone from Wednesday evening through Saturday afternoon, and he and both kids survivedLogistically it was a little difficult since I am still nursing Kalum, but it worked out and I really enjoyed the trip, learned a lot and, though I love them so much, time away from the kids. :)  Since my Dad is on the Board for the chapter, we rode together and it was good to have some time to talk in the car and between meeting times.  

Unfortunately while we in KC we got news that Grandpa Pennell was having some medical issues following a fall he had in the last month or so.   They had to go in an relieve pressure on his brain and everything sounded very serious very quickly.  Since they are out of town, it was hard to know exactly what was going on.  We were definitely praying for the best possible outcome for him, since he is 93 and still going strong!  In the end, it seems they were able to accomplish their goal with his surgery and after a scare with some seizures, he has been in rehab and will be heading home soon.  My Dad even headed out there to visit and did some work on their home (adding hand-rails etc) to make it saferWe hope that he will recover quickly and be able to come to Omaha in June for Courtney's wedding!

Jeff had a potential job opportunity come up this month, despite not really looking for anything else.  He interviewed with a Sprinkler company out of Lincoln that is smaller and has the potential for great opportunities for him, along with keeping his priorities in the order that he wants them to be.  We actually both ended up going to have dinner with the owner and his wife to get a feel for the company and what would be expected, etc.  It went well and after much consideration, negotiation and deliberation, Jeff gave his two week notice at Continental.  It will be bittersweet to leave, but he feels it will be the best move at this time.  The only downside will be the commute, but really 45 minutes isn't all that bad considering what some people have to drive every day.  It will allow him some decompression time (which we're really hoping he'll need less of on this new position).  His first day is May 6th, so we're just praying and hoping that the transition will be as smooth as possible for everyone involved!


Samara's milestone/moments for April:
  • Driving home one evening, she saw a cloud that was shaped like a shark.  She said it was following us, then when we said Daddy was driving our car safely away, she said, "Thank you for saving me."
  • Okay - forget talking in sentences, this girl can talk in paragraphs! And they go from sun-up to sun-down (and then she talks in her sleep)  :)
  • She is nearly potty-trained during the day, but sometimes if there is too much fun going on she still forgets until it's too late - example - She is out helping Jeff wash the truck, when she runs over and crouches on the sidewalk.  I see a puddle forming under her on the concrete.  I told her Samara come on inside, we need to clean you up, why didn't you just say you had to go potty, etc.  Jeff asks how I knew she peed her pants since she was all wet from playing in the wash water and I point to the puddle..  He laughs out loud.  Later that day Samara recounted the event as, "I crooked down on the sidewalk, then there was a puddle.  Daddy saw it and he laughed, he thought it was funny!" We'll have to work on Daddy's poker-face I guess...
  • When playing in her toy kitchen, she all of a sudden said "I gotta get my ipads!"  She grabbed her hot pads and took whatever was cooking in the oven right out. Lol-the things kids of this age say that never would have been said even 5 years ago!
  • We have officially entered the WHY? phase - oh, Lord, please give me patience...
  • Says "open meal" for oatmeal
  • April 25th - first night with no pull-up.  It's been up and down, depending on the night, but at least she is aware when she's wet and she'll figure it out...just have to do more loads of laundry until she does.
  • The night of the shower in Breda, we ended up just having her stay over at Grandpa and Grandma Derby's since it was late and she was already sleeping.  At 2:30AM, Grandma woke up to a strange noise coming from the floor where Samara was sleeping.  After talking to her, Grandma found out the noise was Samara "snorting like Grandpa", awake and imitating his snoring . :)  Grandpa apparently also woke a couple times to her saying "Stop it!" because his snoring didn't cease.
 Kalum's milestones/moments for April:
  • April 6th - first time at the park!
  • April 8th - started sitting up unassisted
  • Survived three days and nights without Mommy - our first real separation
  • Mid-April - found his feet and won't let go!
  • April 27th - first trip out-of-state - we went to Breda, IA for a couples shower that Nick's parents threw for them in his home town.   
  • For the most part, he is all-smiles!  Happy baby boy.  
 

March 2013

March flew by with a flurry of activity again!...

Highlights for Samara:
-She was tall enough to reach the bathroom faucet to turn it on (was already able to turn it off).  The first time she turned it on she said, "Now I'm a pusher up AND a pusher down!"
-When Kalum is crying she will say, "Calm it up, Kalum."  :)  Often she will start talking in a super high, sweet voice imitating mine I guess - "What's the matter buddy?"
-She spelled her name verbally
-Says "hello-copter" for helicopter
-Became a cousin (and so did Kalum) when Laura Derby Kleinschmit had her little baby girl!  We went to visit them the weekend after she was born.  Samara came down with a fever the day we were there and we didn't know what she had so basically kept her away from Leah and Kalum as much as possible.  After her first trip to the urgent care center when we got home, we found she had strep throat.  I have never had that, but Jeff did a lot as a kid and so he felt her pain.  After a day on the amoxicillin she was basically back to normal thankfully.
-Samara loved hunting for Easter eggs at Pennell's on Easter Saturday and then Derby's on Easter Sunday!  We worked on the real meaning of Easter leading up to the holiday, and she actually grasped quite a bit.  Sunday school lessons helped to back up our efforts for sure.  It is amazing how much they can learn so quickly!

Highlights for Kalum:
- Samara can still make him laugh with just a look, or "boo".  It's very cute to see them entertain each other :)
-Early March Kalum started trying to roll back to tummy and by the 23rd he did, by the end of the month he became very proficient.  In fact, when you lay him in his crib he now rolls over to his tummy for his preferred sleeping position!  Once they can roll over the risk of SIDS drops drastically, so that is always a great milestone to reach.
- Mid month he found his thumb to suck on, though he doesn't self pacify as easily as Samara did, and doesn't like pacifiers either.  Overall, he is a little more high-maintenance when it comes to sleeping overall.  There have been a few nights when he only woke up around 2AM, but usually insists on another late night feeding (gotta keep up that healthy physique you know).  We did find that the warmer his room, the better, so we moved a space heater from my work space in the basement to his room.

My work is still in its busy season and truthfully there are days of complete exhaustion between working and then not really getting to sleep much.  But, it is what it is and is not a forever phase.  I try to remember when waking up at night that Kalum will only be a little baby for a short time, so I try to take the time to enjoy the rocking, feeling him breathing against my chest and smelling his baby hair.  On a day when I was totally tired and was noticing my short temper as I bossed Samara around doing this and that, I happened to read an article in one of my MOPS magazines.  It talked about ruling over your kids like subjects (oops-guilty).  It was definitely God's timing in reading that, and I was convicted to raise our kids in patient love like Jesus the humble king.  And it doesn't hurt that Samara will say, "Be Nice Mommy!" sometimes.  Though she needs the sternness many times, it is not always necessary for sure.

Jeff's work load is still quite overwhelming as well.  He has had many an early morning going in to work in order to get some things done before the phone calls and emails start coming in.  He has been faithful to being home by dinner time, but the lack of sleep has been wearing on him as well.  He decided to "turn over a new leaf" and cut back his hours, regardless of the impact on his projects.  I'm sure he pays for choices like with with added stress at work, and he takes such pride in what he does, that he can only follow up that statement so much.  I'm so thankful for my Family Man husband!