Sunday, November 24, 2013

October 2013

   Fall has definitely arrived, so October was full of all things pumpkin, new kid experiences, Husker football, our 9 Year Anniversary and Kalum's First Birthday!  Our anniversary, being in the middle of the week during a busy month, was spent at home with the kids.  We will go out sometime in the near future to celebrate.  We are celebrating Kalum's birthday on November 2nd with family, so I'll have more photos and details in the November post.  Jeff, of course had work, and I did as well this month.  With a couple NARI events being in the evening, some home show work one Sunday and a trip to Chicago in mid-October it was busy again!  Jeff and my parents coordinated to survive the  three days without me and I appreciate that for sure.  I enjoyed my trip to Chicago and learned a lot to bring back to our chapter, as always.  I also had a big MOPS event to plan crafts for, and all went well.  I feel like the position for MOPS will get less stressful with a few more meetings under my belt.  But, despite the occasional busyness, it is still rewarding and I enjoy interacting with all the ladies in our group.
  With Halloween approaching, I asked my mom to bring over some costumes that she made and still had from when Courtney and I were little.  She brought a couple for Kalum and a few for Samara.  Samara said the Pink Panther head was stinky inside.  She was quite disconcerted that Minnie Mouse only had four finger spots in the gloves!  In the end, she chose the Pink Panther to wear to daycare on the 30th and the Lion for "Noah's Ark Party" at preschool and trick or treating.  We chose the pumpkin for Kalum, since he finds any form of a hat unacceptable right now.  We figured at least people would know what it was and we could put warm clothes under it.
  Samara was SO excited to carve the pumpkins that we got!  We had gone to a pumpkin patch on a sunny Sunday to get some small ones, but had to get a couple bigger ones at Hy-Vee, as the patch was already out of big ones.  She kept asking when we were going to cut them open and pull out all the guts (her words).  She had no fear in digging her hands inside and scooping everything out - this is much different than her Mommy was, and still is.  It was a Daddy/Daughter bonding experience while I photographed, directed and played with Kalum.
  Samara LOVED trick-or-treating!  She got super excited when kids started coming to our door, and made sure they each got some candy in their bag.  When it was time to head out, we could barely contain her to the same driveway as us and the nearby sidewalk.  She was off and running, but at least politely saying trick or treat and thank you.  I heard an occasional roar for the people at the door as well, upon request.  She kept saying, "One more house, one more house." Then when we'd gone all the way up and back down our entire street (Daddy and "Pumpkin Kalum" retired to the house before then) she was like, "My legs are so tired, I don't think I can even walk any more."  Good thing we were just one driveway from our house, or I think I would have been lugging a lion back home!

Samara's Moments & Milestones for the month:
  • Early October -  Recognizes her name on paper, something she has to do each morning of preschool (find her cubby, then her name on the table and put it into the mailbox)
  • Talks completely non-stop when she is excited!!
  • Early October - had a phase for about a week where she was waking at night, talking LOUDLY in dreams.  A few of the times she actually was very scared and crying.  It took a while to get her to actually wake up, but I didn't want her to hurt herself the way she was thrashing around and hanging off the edge of her bed.  One time she said the carpet was going to get her!
  • Mid October - says Kalum is her favorite boy! aw, sibling love.
  • Loves jumping - off the couch (even though it's a no-no with Mom), steps - as high as we'll let her jump from, over cushions, etc.  She is fearless and actually lands on her feet most of the time.
  • Jeff's gecko from work was not doing well, so he brought her home to keep a better eye on her.  I asked Samara what would happen if Daddy's gecko "Shera" died.  She was very unemotional and matter-of-fact in her explanation.  She said, "Shera would just go to gecko heaven".  I asked her about the body, "we would just throw it in the trash after leaving it in the cage for a while, then we'd have to get another gecko later".  I guess we won't have to be burying a shoebox when the inevitable happens, huh?
  • Oct 23rd - we had our first Parent-Teacher conference with Samara's preschool teacher.  It was a phone conference call with Mrs. DeVries.  She said Samara gets along with all the girls and when asked she will say her favorite part of school is "playing with the other kids".  She has made progress in knowing that during Circle Time she can't go and play.  At the beginning of the year she didn't really understand that (or choose to).  She seems to like all the activities, not just one toy or craft station.
  • At Hy-Vee (one of Samara's favorite stops) she chose the grocery cart with two steering wheels, one for each kid.  Samara taught Kalum when to drive, turn and stop.  They both enjoyed the adventure until Samara got to hug-y, then K was done!! 
Kalum's Moments & Milestones for the month:
  •  Early October, he moved beyond his first one and only word - BALL! and now says "baby" for anything with two eyes - babies, kittens, other kids, etc.  He kind of makes an S sound for Samara, so we'll see when he gets that one down.
  • Oct 6th- figured out how to go up our short set of stairs - Daddy found his triumphantly at the top! Three days later he had mastered the full set of stairs and could make it all the way to the top in about 30 seconds.
  • Mid October - adding more sounds to his vocabulary, kind of says "yay" when clapping, "bup bup" when going down the stairs on his bottom, "eesz" for please while signing.  Cookies are the food that helped him to master this request - REALLY likes those animal cookies!
  • Late October - understanding more and responding more every day.  He's already into football and will hold up one hand and says "da!" when there's at touchdown.  Says baba when he wants his milk and can sign please and more during meals.  If you are snacking, he'll hang by you and grab at you wanting some and signs please.  He thinks anything that comes out of a crinkly sounding bag must be good.  How do we learn this so young?!
  • When he smiles really big, I think he really looks like his daddy. :)
  • Getting even faster on his feet and when you play a chasing game, he really runs away!
  • With turning one comes inevitable toddler injuries - nothing major, but just they typical... has rolled off of our bed, rolled in slow motion down the stairs and face planted out our front door when it opened (thank goodness for the welcom mat on that one!)
  • We are trying to get rid of the bottles in our life (and thus his).  He will say "baba!" and shove the sippy cup away if he's not in the mood to settle for less than bottle-yummyness.  Both the bottle and sippy cups contain the same milk, just at a different temperature.  But, we have been fairly successful during the day at meals.  He is essentially just down to a bottle at bedtime with Daddy.
  • Kalum had his Doctor's appointment for his one-year wellness check-up ON his birthday.  A healthy little boy, cruising through the motor skills, much like his sister!  He also had to get FOUR shots - poor kid!  Here's his measurements at that check-up:
    • Weight: 24 lbs (76%)
    • Height: 30.75" (78%, up from 66% at 9 months, grew about 1.5")
    • Head circumference: 45.1 cm (15% - so where are the small-ish head genes coming from?) At least he looks proportionate!  :)
  • First Halloween at home! Last year we were still in the hospital, so it was fun that this year he got to dress up and go trick-or-treating with Samara.
November is next - so much to be thankful for, that's for sure!!


Sunday, November 17, 2013

September 2013

September was a month with lots of firsts for both kids and plenty of activity for all!  Everything kind of got started back up between our church Journey group, MOPS for Amanda (and kids), Amanda's work events and of course, Husker football! Jeff is still enjoying (or not minding) his drive time to work each day.  He is cranking through books on CD, which we got a pile of from the library and his mom found some on sale as well.  He is getting to know his co-workers better and that always makes your work environment better.  He has been working with them on upgrading some of their ways and systems to be more efficient.

Since I took on the position as the Creative Activities Coordinator for our 1st/3rd weeks MOPS group, I've had to start on the planning for purchasing and teaching the crafts.  We don't have a craft though at our first few meetings, so it gives me a little time to get going on everything.  I do have MOPS monthly Steering team meetings and went to one MOPS local leadership event.  Though it can be a lot of work to get everything set for the crafts, so far I have found it very fulfilling to work with this group of Godly women in planning the year for our whole MOPS group.  I am just hoping I can get more comfortable once a few crafts are under my belt.  For NARI this month, in addition to a board meeting, general meeting and tour committee planning, I planned our annual golf outing this month and all went well, with 16 teams participating.

We celebrated Poppy's 90th birthday this month with a pizza party at their house!  We had a fun evening and now Poppy is off towards the next goal - 100! Happy Birthday Poppy!

Samara's Moments and Milestones for the Month:
  • First dental cleaning appointment-she did great!!
  • PreSchool Open House - night before school started.  All was great until we went to leave.  She didn't want to leave unless she could take the fish in the tank with her.  "But I would take good care of them!" she insisted and repeated over and over through sobs. Hoping the first day goes better!
  • First day of PreSchool - so far she loves it.  Brought her blue school bag, found her cubby and name with help and joined in for circle time on the rug.  She seems excited to go each time, no tears at all!
  •  We have entered a phase where EVERYTHING is a competition or a race.  We hear how she's going to win or "I beat you!" is said after every activity.  She even says our dinner prayer quickly, then says, I beat you!  We had to talk about how everything is NOT a race.
  • At Lowe's with Daddy, she would walk right up to the Halloween tall blow-up decor and touch it. She told Mommy about it when home, "I walked right up and touched it and it didn't eat me!"
  • She speaks very clearly and can say most anything, but it's so cute...she still says "laly bug" for lady bug
  • After only 3 days at PreSchool she can sing parts of a few and all of the "apples in the tree" song.  They are in preparations for the field trip to the Apple Orchard this month.  Mommy went along to the field trip, Super Bee Apple Orchard.  They got to go out and pick their own apples off the tree and then come up to learn about the apple sorting machine.  It was a chilly day, but thankfully not raining!  All the girls had fun (12 girls, 0 boys in her class) and we came home with some apples.  We made apple cake and then apple crisp with them- yum!
  • Spt 19th - first sick day :(  She had a fever and was up at night saying she couldn't swallow.  Had her stay home just in case it was strep throat or something.  In the end it wasn't and she bounced back by that afternoon.
  • Maybe with all of the new things going on, she sucked her thumb too much?  She got a blister on her top lip.  Was thinking maybe it would put a stop to the thumb sucking...it did not. Oh well, it's really only when she's tired.
Kalum's Moments and Milestones for the Month:
  • Sept 2nd - pulled self to standing in crib
  • Early Sept - can walk and kick a ball, new favorite syllable... "b, b, b", can push self up from tummy to standing, walks hands and feet together until he's up!, 4th tooth on top is coming in, that makes eight chompers now.  He will bite whatever part of you he can reach if he is trying to get your attention - beware, he can bite through jeans!
  • Sept 11th - started a z/s sound today
  • Sept 15th- first long car tip.  We went to Moline for a baby shower for Jeff's cousin Todd &Teresa Green.  He did well, thank goodness for Curious Buddies video on the way home!  He had had enough of the carseat.
  • Sept 19th- he is making more sounds and understanding more and more.  If you say, go get your ball, he'll look for one and go get it if in sight.  Saying memememe for Mommy (usually when unhappy or scolding for not paying attention to him).  Has said Dada.  He can wave hi and bye-bye.  Working with him on signing please.
  • Sept 19th- consistently sleeping all night now - thankfully!  Bed by 8:30, up at 5AM for either a bottle then back to sleep until 8AM, or if he doesn't wake up at 5, then he'll sleep until about 7:15-but wants milk ASAP!!  If home all day, usually naps at 10ish and 2:30ish.  If we run morning errands, he just naps at about 2ish.
  • Starting to be slightly unsure of others.  Sept 19th was first day Gemma watched him all day without Samara there.  Samara was at daycare and I was working our golf outing.  We had to distract him with Curious Buddies when I left.  Then he didn't want to nap for Gemma!  Threw quite a fit but finally surrendered.
  • Now loves for you to say "Gonna get you!", especially Daddy.  He runs away smiling and laughing.  He is still VERY ticklish and giggles like crazy. He has dimples in both cheeks - melts your heart! :)
  •   He figured out how to make this "frog kazoo" toy make noise.  So, now he walks around with it his mouth, then stops and dances (bounced up and down) to his own tune.
  • Late Sept. he figured out how to go up two stairs.  And also switched from memememe to Mamama, still mainly for scolding and days Da! for Daddy when he sees him.
Overall, a great month for our family.  We're ready for October and some more fall fun and events. not to mention a certain little 11 month old's birthday!!